What's The Real Definition of Love?
"LOVE IS.. A DEEP FEELING OF AFFECTION, LOVE IS.. GIVING, LOVE IS.. A FORCE OF NATURE, LOVE IS.. LOVING SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY."
For me .. Love is an emotional connection between yourself and to someone. Love is you. Love is in you. You cannot give this or share this with anybody unless you know you have it. Sometimes, we think when we meet someone new and we feel butterflies in our stomach people think its love. My answer is no.. Not yet.. Those are infatuations. It is some passion that you feel with so much admiration. Love towards someone does not exist overnight or just a few hours or even a few days. It takes time to fully love someone. It takes time to fully give all of yourself to someone. The reason why when we give birth to our children we feel so much love and emotions towards them is because that child, that you just gave birth to, that you are staring at, has been inside you for 9 months. That love developed in your womb for 9 months.
THE LOVE THAT IS IN YOU THAT YOU ARE FEELING SHOULD BE GENUINE.
When you know you love someone you are willing to love that person unconditionally. You are willing to sacrifice anything for him. Now, How if he does not love you back? How can you give love to him? You don’t expect anything back when you give love. When you love you give it all and when you have that love in you, It will show on your face. It will show in your aura. Eventually this person that you love will give that love back to you. If you find the right time to have a conversation with your spouse. Do it lovingly and not with anger or bitterness, because your partner will feel it. Emotions are very strong.
HOW CAN YOU GIVE LOVE TO SOMEONE THAT HAVE HURT YOU?
Or someone you hate. It is hard to tell you honestly. It took me a while, years, to give love or feel love towards someone I hated. It took a lot of realization, meditations, prayers, understanding, and acceptance before I was able to recognize I have forgiven and can offer love instead of hate. I came up with an appreciation instead of hate. Because if the situation with that person I hated did not happen, I would not have been where I am right now. I actually have accomplished something good in my life. So I thanked that person I hated and can finally give love.
Oh and ladies when you say you want to give love, Do it! Don’t just say it. Or wear a shirt that says Love.. Giving love to others is the best feeling of content and happiness.
I hope this helped you give some definition of Love ladies. Tune in to my next video and article coming up this week. I love you all.